A little pre-tinder light-heartedness...

​Lonely Hearts' Bear & Chow club!
MEMBERS ONLY💔

​PLAY SONG if you like
​WHILE PERUSING OUR PERSONALS! 

Peapaw Bearly survived Valentine's Day & He & his friends posted these personals, old-fashionedly pre-tinder, #stillfun

"Sick of smothering mothering."

I am Peapaw & I am looking for a new home where my mommy doesn't treat me like a baby.  I am a double-AA-ALPHA male and my wrinkles have gone from cute to mean overnight & Mommy is in denial.  I want a place where I'll be taken seriously for the menacing champion CHOW I am instead of being treated like a TOY someone got from FAO Schwarz.🐾 #newpalace4peapaw  

YOGA BEARA:​ "WOOKIN' PA NUB IN ALL DA RIGHT PWACES."

​This flexible bear is looking for love♥️ (within), likes going for long walks through the woods, is partial to salmon (but not a finicky "foodie"), loves the water, and taking long winter naps is a must!  Yoga Beara is seriously spiritual and loves visiting TonT.org to gain flexibility of mind which requires its own discipline and hard work beyond yoga! #spiritualbearsonly

TEDDY OBSESSED:"READY FOR A REAL ROMANCE" 💙

Too long have I thrown my affection upon another unable to return it...  Are you animated?  Can you actually hold a conversation?  Looking for someone who doesn't constantly need to be pushed, pulled and carried around all the time!  Tired of having to do all the work!  Are you capable of more than sitting around & taking adorable selfies for social?  RU a REAL BEAR looking for REAL LOVE? #bear4life

BEA WEST: "LOOKIN' FOR A HOT TIME IN THE COLD CLIMATE TONIGHT!"

I am frisky frolicking rollicking fun.  I RUN AROUND and PLAY IN THE SNOW.  I soak up life and sun and go for dips in sub-zero temps because I am one hot momma.  Let's meet cute over some whale carcass... You bring the bubbly, I'll bring the fluffy & keep your seat on the ice nice and toasty warm, along with my heart.  You've found me -- now come and get me, Big Bear! 🌹#canyoubearthis??!  

The Basis of Romantic Love...

Romantic love is a facet of There are different ways people deal with unrequitedness: one is to pine wistfully and do nothing; another is to never stop moving, becoming so busy one temporarily circumvents the emptiness within.  But, if you're unhappy alone, romance will not make the longing, despair, hopes, wishes, & dreams unfulfilled disappear!  It's really about what YOU bring to a relationship that will determine its success.

When initially meeting a romantic interest, it can bring out the best in you.  Why?  Because you're bringing out the best in you.  People try harder in the beginning.  Inspired by the "newness" of it all, people become new themselves!  When we get out of our own way, the real us is allowed to come through.  How can we do that everyday?  It starts by finding out who you are WHEN NO ONE'S LOOKING.  It's flowing through a channel of love: loving ourselves enough to find out who we are, then sharing that beautiful person with others in ways in which we're LED and DIVINELY INSPIRED.  

ToNT.oRg is here to help you make it happen!
  

No matter what's happening real love & healing is heading your way.  Sometimes you can lose hope, but, keep developing, accepting, and demanding that love from within:  Do your part.  

If you're longing to find someone special, start by BEING someone special.

Live it, and all will be added unto you.

Let go of your self-involvement and find strength beyond your greatest dreams: It is the real you, unchained from the past, free to express and revel in life NOW, luminous enough to see into & light your glorious future.

≈like a box of chocolates.