To sin really means "missing the mark." You're supposed to fix the areas in your life that aren't working and then...
"Go forth and get it right!"
It's crucial to honestly assess what, where, and from when is troubling us. One area of life does not transfer to another: you must address the source or you will forever be motivated by unseen forces. You must heal what needs to be healed, and not ignore it or deny it. Visit TONTO to read more.
There is greatness within all of us, because "God don't make no junk." But, you have a choice; and if people want to behave like junk AND trash other people, then they will never exhibit it.
You're loved: no matter what, but you don't get any benefits until YOU start being loving, too! It's up to you.