"Be faithful in small things because it's in them that your strength lies." - Mother Theresa
IT matters more what's within you than what anyone thinks of you...
(Feel free to play the song while reading below - "There's Gold in them Hills.")
Who are you when no one's looking?
1. Take up a happy hobby.
Give yourself a rest by finding something you enjoy JUST FOR YOU & NOT TO BROADCAST TO OTHERS. The magic of life happens in the small private moments and when you miss out on those you are missing out on EVERYTHING. If you create problems for yourself and the source of much of your misery -- time to stop being so productive! Shovel from a new pile of more happy and less nasty.
WHY CHOOSE MOUNTAINS WHEN YOU CAN HAVE MOLEHILLS?
Fear is a drama queen you don't need to invite to your parties any longer.
2. Unlearn Fear...
...And take up Faith! Fear is something that's mostly indulged. If you've spoiled your mind, and your life, by entertaining fear then you need new party guests! Try inviting Faith in and see how pleasant company can be without all the drama. FOMO is just a lie to get you to think you're not enough on your own. WRONG: Fear needs YOUR ENERGY to exist! It's nothing without you... Instead let faith be the queen of your heart and let love REIGN.
NO RELIGION NECESSARY: JUST PEACE OF MIND.
From Existential to Transcendental.
3. Honor the Struggle
Quit subsistence living! Gratitude takes circumstances by the cojones and shows your world WHO'S BOSS. By giving thanks for all little things we appreciate bigger things more because WE'VE BECOME BIGGER. Accept love is always present, along with growth, and the mundane is transformed to miraculous nobility.
WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.
You are golden: accept it and start treating yourself that way.