With all the trauma occurring, a little light-heartedness can be important for balance and sanity, ergo...

​Lonely Hearts' Bear & Chow club!
MEMBERS ONLY💔

(meant to go up post Valentine's but more pressing matters #alittlelevityalready) 

​PLZ PLAY this FABULOUS SONG
​WHILE PERUSING OUR PERSONALS! 

Peapaw Bearly survived Valentine's Day & He & his friends posted these personals, old-fashionedly pre-tinder, #stillfun

"Sick of smothering mothering."

I am Peapaw & I am looking for a new home where my mommy doesn't treat me like a baby.  I am a double-AA-ALPHA male and my wrinkles have gone from cute to mean overnight & Mommy is in denial.  I want a place where I'll be taken seriously for the menacing champion CHOW I am instead of being treated like a TOY someone got from FAO Schwarz.🐾 #newpalace4peapaw  

YOGA BEARA:​ "WOOKIN' PA NUB IN ALL DA RIGHT PWACES."

​This flexible bear is looking for love♥️ (within), likes going for long walks through the woods, is partial to salmon (but not a finicky "foodie"), loves the water, and taking long winter naps is a must!  Yoga Beara is seriously spiritual and loves visiting TonT.org to gain flexibility of mind which requires its own discipline and hard work beyond yoga! #spiritualbearsonly

TEDDY OBSESSED:"READY FOR A REAL ROMANCE" 💙

Too long have I thrown my affection upon another unable to return it...  Looking for someone animated, who growls and chats, who doesn't need pushing, pulling, and being carried around all the time!  Are you a proactive self-starter who wants more than to sit around & be adorable for social?  RU sick of being the only one who's trying as your partner stares into space (aka their phone) ignoring you?  RU a REAL BEAR looking for a REAL RELATIONSHIP? #realfurforme

BEA WEST: "LOOKIN' FOR A HOT TIME IN THE COLD CLIMATE TONIGHT!"

I am frisky frolicking rollicking fun.  I RUN AROUND and PLAY IN THE SNOW.  I soak up life and sun and go for dips in sub-zero temps because I am one hot momma.  Let's meet cute over some whale carcass... You bring the bubbly, I'll bring the fluffy & keep your seat on the ice nice and toasty warm, along with my heart.  You've found me -- now come and get me, Big Bear! 🌹#canyoubearthis??!  

The Basis of Romantic Love...
There are different ways people deal with unrequitedness: one is to pine wistfully and do nothing; another is to never stop moving, becoming so busy one temporarily circumvents the emptiness within.  But, if you're unhappy alone, romance will not make the longing, despair, hopes, wishes, & dreams unfulfilled disappear!  It's really about what YOU bring to a relationship that will determine its success.

When initially meeting a romantic interest, it can bring out the best in you.  Why?  Because you're bringing out the best in you.  People try harder in the beginning.  Inspired by the "newness" of it all, people become new themselves!  When we get out of our own way, the real us is allowed to come through.  How can we do that everyday?  It starts by finding out who you are WHEN NO ONE'S LOOKING.  It's flowing through a channel of love: loving ourselves enough to find out who we are, then sharing that beautiful person with others in ways in which we're LED and DIVINELY INSPIRED.  

ToNT.oRg is here to help you make it happen!
  

No matter what's happening real love & healing is heading your way.  Sometimes you can lose hope, but, keep developing, accepting, and demanding that love from within:  Do your part.  

If you're longing to find someone special, start by BEING someone special.

Live it, and all will be added unto you.

Let go of your self-involvement and find strength beyond your greatest dreams: It is the real you, unchained from the past, free to express and revel in life NOW, luminous enough to see into & light your glorious future.

≈like a box of chocolates.