REAL LOVE... 

...Is like the Energizer Bunny...  It just keeps going and going!  

Whenever you feel the need to blame, redirect that energy into doing something positive for others. The opportunity may not present itself right away, but, just be open to relating to others in the special way that you can in the unique position in which you find yourself.  There's the maxim, "It's better to do a good deed closer to home than to go to the temple to burn incense."  Opportunities abound right where you are -- you need not go far to seek them out -- you just have to recognize them ACTing from a position of love (inspired and spontaneous is best!).  
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